The perfect guide to getting started with adult toys

Posted by Norman Taylor on September 22nd, 2016

A good percentage of women like to explore their sexuality with their partners. But sometimes, their partners may not know exactly the sensitive pleasure spots of their lovers. This is why sex toys are available for women to experiment by themselves.  A good number women actually use adult toys for daily pleasure experience, while some would like to try but just don’t know how to get started.

If sex toys are the main topic of a conversation, quite a number of people give it mixed reactions. Both those engaged and single give a blushing, giggling reaction but with some level of curiosity. A good percentage of ladies, about 44% (between 18 years and 60 years) have already tried these pleasure necessities. It is comforting to hear this, but majority are intrigued and silent with no idea on how to start.

The first rule to be adhered to when shopping for these sex contraptions is loosening up and enjoying the ride. It is normal to experience a little bit of awkwardness when shopping for them. Perhaps a better way to go about it is thinking of these toys as desserts in a restaurant. When a dish is ordered at a restaurant, dessert is optional, but very yummy when tried out. The same goes for sex toys. They should be treated as items to boost sexual pleasure and anyone would not have any trouble starting to shop.

It is obvious that a sex toy cannot kiss, cuddle or give compliments. But it can actually enhance orgasmic intensity on a woman through stimulation of the important erogenous areas that can be difficult for a man to find out or know they even exist. And women have plenty of them – G-spot, U-spot, the perineum, A-spot. All these are extra sensitive parts that a woman need stimulation for and a sex toy can help find them out.

There are quite a number of sex toys which sum up to six different types – dildos, vibrators, nipple toys, penis rings, masturbation toys and sexercises. So the second step involves knowing the different types available and choosing your preferred taste. Going on a window shopping across the city boutiques could help give some ideas. If not into the fetish store, the web has plenty of information on different types of toys and how they best serve their purposes.

Beginners often tend to get caught up or freaked out with the mechanics of a vibrator.  It is therefore best recommended to start simple to mitigate those fears. Perhaps a smaller clitoral vibrator that does not have whistles and bells can be a good start off. The only way to know how one feels and what they like is by starting simple while experimenting personally. Simple adult toys such as blindfolds can actually put away any distractions or hang-ups that may be experienced with a person’s body.

The next move should be thinking about how strong one wants the vibrations to be. If it takes a little longer for a woman to get off with her hands, a more powerful vibrator could help. While searching for the effective toy, quality construction and safety materials such as silicone should be considered.

If one is planning to use adult toys with a partner, it’s recommendable to discuss the topic with them before actually making a purchase. It can be challenging for some people to bring up the topic to their partners. So it’s good to make it look like a suggestion, not a request.

Adult toys present a great way for a woman to personally find out her erogenous zones that can sometimes be difficult for a man to know that they even exist. The first step to search for sex toys should be brushing off the fears and considering them as pleasure enhancers.