5 BDSM Toys To Take Your Sex Life To The Next Level

Posted by Jenny Stark on March 7th, 2019

Whether you heard about bondage for the first time in Fifty Shades of Grey, or have always been turned on by the thought of getting tied up and spanked, if you are in the mood to explore your kinky side, there is a plethora of BDSM toys out there for you. Bondage, which refers to the act of restraining one’s partner during sex, is the foundation of BDSM (Bondage, Domination, Sadism, and Masochism). Even though it was considered taboo until a few years ago and was confined to shady fetish clubs, thanks to more open conversations regarding sex, and to a certain extent, Fifty Shades of Grey, today you can pick up your favorite BDSM toys and accessories at high-end mainstream sex shops. They have a whole range of things for you to play with, like whips, paddles and erotic nipple clamps for, sale.

So, whether you are a beginner who simply wants to experiment with bondage or someone looking to add more toys to your dungeon, here is a list of BDSM toys that are sure to rock your socks off:

1.  Wartenburg pinwheel

A neurologist named Robert Wartenburg invented the pinwheel as a tool to test the sensitivity of human skin. You don’t essentially have to engage in medical role-play to enjoy its pleasures. It can be used on the submissive partner when he or she is restrained. The dominant partner can roll the toy along the most sensitive areas, like the thighs and nipples.

2.  Bondage rope

Shibari, which is an ancient Japanese form of bondage, is an art that can give you an intensely erotic but spiritual sexual experience. You can get special bondage rope to engage in Shibari. There are also various classes available that teach you how to tie up your partner using various Shibari rope patterns.

3.  Nipple clamps

Nipple clamps are used to provide an intense pinching sensation on the nipples. They are one of the most widely used BDSM toys. However, if you are new to this world, start out with an adjustable clamp until you get to know the threshold of your pain.

4.  Riding crop

Riding crops are not just for horses. The dominant partner, after tying the submissive up, can use a crop to administer some proper spankings. The leather on the crop should be soft, so that it doesn’t cause any injuries. Some riding crops come with handles that can also be used as dildos.

5.  Flogger

Floggers are one of the most versatile BDSM toys. Depending on how you use them, they can provide millions of different sensations for the one getting flogged. You can simply drag it across your partner’s skin or flick it for a more strong effect.

Regardless of the toys or techniques that you use, remember that the basic tenets of BDSM are safety and consent. Discuss the safe words and the boundaries with your partner before you engage in any act. It is also important to communicate during the act so that both you are able to be on the same page.

Author’s bio: The author is a blogger. This article is about BDSM toys.